Posted in Mindfulness, Relationships, Self Love

Be An Amazing Person

All my life I’ve wondered why there are people in this world that just treat amazing people so horrible. Well, to be honest there are many different reasons why this happens, however there is no right or wrong answer. I look at myself as an amazing person because first if you don’t, then who will? Second, I am amazing, because there is and was only one me that alone makes me amazing. Now I can admit that I’ve done some bad things and some horrible things to people in my days, yet I must also be honest and make you, the reader aware that I did it in retaliation. Now does that make it right? Does that make it okay? NO, absolutely not, but it does make it even and it satisfied my human flesh. It kept my confidence up as an individual, and needless to say it fed the anger and evil that we all posses inside. The bigger question is did it benefit me? Of course we have already acknowledged without saying so that it DID NOT.

I chose to speak on this today because in this “real life realm,” bad things, HORRIBLE THINGS happen to the best and most amazing people you could ever come across. What’s so heartbreaking is the good person that keeps getting knocked down by mean, bad, evil people and life….. they have the capability and endurance to keep going on with life. Some may show that what has happened to them gets the best of them, and then you have those who just vent and continue  on their merry way. The ones that are so amazing to me, are the ones who don’t let it sweat them, they don’t allow someone unlike themselves to conquer them and turn them into something or someone they’re not.  Those types of people, WOW they are… just WOW. I’ve been in this position more times than I am able to recall, and what I’ve come to realize first is, we allow these things to happen to us. How you ask? Well, more than likely when the situation (whatever the situation may be or may have been) was initially presented, our bodies felt some type of way. We were very aware that our first thought, feeling and reaction was to decline all aspects of the situation. The trouble is our ears are keen to listening, are our hearts our keen to feeling, our minds are keen to consideration, and our spirit is keen to giving. Not many people in this world are okay with receiving, the majority of us prefer to give because it makes us feel as though we have helped someone who is worse off than us. This is when our heart, mind and spirit over rule what our body, our gut was telling us from the beginning and there we are giving, lending, and helping. Is this a bad thing? Not at all, it’s perfectly okay. What we don’t think about is ourselves, and when you’re doing a good deed the tradition is you shouldn’t be thinking of yourself. But you actually should, how can you give, lend, help and so much more when you aren’t capable of giving, lending, helping and so much more? You can not, sometimes support is the most that is warranted, sometimes kind words are what’s needed, sometimes it’s a hug that makes the bad feelings go away. Sometimes it’s the word NO that helps you love yourself first. These things, they don’t cost anything yet they are the most expensive and hardest things to give.

Working in an atmosphere than has the tendency to be hostile and very tense s where I learned that people like me, like you, like us… we are needed and wanted more than we know. We are here to grace the lives of those angry, mean, evil, people. We are here to make a change and to become more powerful than we were before we made contact with said people. There’s a balance in life and we all tip the scales personally and socially. What I want you to remember is you may have once been that bad, mean, evil, angry person to an amazing person before. A special person said to me today, “Every blessing you are or give to a bad person, you take away an action of karma.” Now don’t go doing good deeds and blessing people just to rid yourself of karma because like it or not we still have to answer for all of our wrongdoings. Just make sure that you’re you through and through, make sure that just because darkness comes it doesn’t still the light within you….

 

Sprinkle your magic everywhere you go.🌌

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Mother and Self Created Queen seeking to change the lives of people in the world. I want people to know that #SelfLove is thee most important love in the world. I have experienced many things in life and know first hand how it is and feels to be alone in a world surrounded by many people. I started the social Media Label #FindingMe to promote and encourage self love, growth, and encouragement through life struggles. I am currently writing a book and studying life coaching, counseling, and psychotherapy. I advocate for movements in life, our universe deserves to know that there are more people who appreciate the greatness in life than there are who do not appreciate it.

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