Posted in Self Growth, Self Help

Heal Yourself from Negativity

Everyday we all get up and prepare ourselves to face a world full of people we assume we know and ones we don’t know. Everyday we prepare ourselves to manage how we deal with said people, sources, and the energy they possess. We acknowledge them and their intents even without them telling us or forcing us to do so. What we don’t do is project ourselves, we don’t prepare self for self. What has happened is we have let these people into our personal beings and space. We have combined their energy with ours, their source of habit is and has become our source of habit, they have taken over who we are. If nothing is done they will take over who we are meant to become. We “allow” our loved ones to be the negativity in our lives, because they are dear to us. We “tolerate” our loved ones like this because we are taught that they’re family and we should always love family no matter what. We have the tendency to feel as though because they are our loved ones that we have to accept them and put up with them. That we have to deal with them…

The truth is that we do not have to accept them, we do not have to deal with them, we do not have to let them become us. We do not have to associate with them because we were taught that family is family no matter what. We actually can CHOOSE not to be bothered with them at all, DNA makes you family not allowance and tolerance.

Another truth is, you have to break those ties and distance yourself from those people to get your power back. You have to speak positivity into yourself to ignite the flame that has burned out. You have to acknowledge that you are not them and they are not you. You have to hold them accountable for what they have inflicted on you. You have to release all of the hurt, confusion, and pain that you have grown through.


Take each moment a step at a time, take each breathe inhaled and exhaled with joy that you have now conquered your tormentors. Start your day off by doing something first for YOU. Take a moment in the middle of your day just for YOU. At the end of each and every day take a moment just for YOU. Give to yourself what you need, don’t just fill the void replace it with something and someone meaningful. Everyday without that person or those people you will get stronger and happier, more peace and prosperity will be in hands reach. Soon you will not have to prepare yourself for the people and places in the world, they will be preparing themselves for you. They will be happy and mad to see you come; just like they will be happy and mad to see you go. You having confidence in yourself is much more harder for your enemy to deal with than them being able to torture you. Remember they are there to drain you from you and fill you up with them, the only way you can be filled up is by emptying out.

There is a place in you that you must keep inviolate, a place that you must keep clean. A place where you say to any intruder, “Back up, don’t you know I’m a child of God.”        -Maya Angelou

Free yourself from them as if your life depends on it…..BECAUSE IT DOES!!!



Mother and Self Created Queen seeking to change the lives of people in the world. I want people to know that #SelfLove is thee most important love in the world. I have experienced many things in life and know first hand how it is and feels to be alone in a world surrounded by many people. I started the social Media Label #FindingMe to promote and encourage self love, growth, and encouragement through life struggles. I am currently writing a book and studying life coaching, counseling, and psychotherapy. I advocate for movements in life, our universe deserves to know that there are more people who appreciate the greatness in life than there are who do not appreciate it.

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