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Today is inauguration day… to me it’s #TrumpDay … I don’t understand why people are so upset and outraged about him becoming president and actually stepping into being the 45th president of this country, more-so this union. YOU VOTED FOR HIM!!!

Shut the fuck up about the tragedy. You have officially been grabbed by the pussy!


When we had Obama people complained  about him being black, about him being a muslim, about him being president… People complained about every single damn thing you can possibly think of. Now that he and his family are leaving everyone is in an uproar, people are saddened and FINALLY realize that he may not have been the best but he was the most civilized president to grace The White (black) house. I chose to talk about the inauguration today because sometimes people need to hear the truth whether they want to or not. My previous publication was about believing in self and others. Well for crying out damn loud have some hope for the children of our future. Instead of worrying about what Trump is going to mess up. How about give yourself the push to give these children a future to look forward to. It is far too many adults running around crying about what is going on instead of taking actions in their own lives and teaching their children. For those who do not have children be an advocate to a parent-less child. Build up enough hope within yourself to do something for you in order to do something for the future. I’m literally shaking my head…. As a child I remember hearing my father say that  we are the generation that would determine their lives. I thought to myself about how many people who are in my generation, they did not want to be consumed with their parents or their elders for that matter. I actually feared for their future more than I feared for mine. I felt like I had control over what would happen in my future and what would happen with my loved ones, and my children’s, children’s future.

In no way did I want my children to go through what I went through, would I put my father through some of the things I had witnessed others putting their parents through. Now that I am an adult with children of my own and parents who are very quickly becoming elderly. I put my hopes and dreams into the roots of my children. Listen, learn, love, grow, TEACH and no matter what PUSH FORWARD in life. I mean life is exactly what you make it and why not make the best of it!? If you are beginning to wonder exactly what it is that I do to plant the seed of growth… you’re reading and following that seed. I implement #Self-Love into my life and my children’s lives, into the lives of others on a daily basis. Now I know there are and will be the nay sayers…

*Just what in the hell is self-love going to do for our country!?

*You cannot run a country off of self-love!

*You cannot teach a grown person something they are not willing to learn!


Guess what your statements may and can be right, but I will not give up on my children and their future because you don not believe in yourself or others. I will not give up planting the seeds of hopeful growth because you do not want to grow with this country in unity. I will not give up on my grandchildren and great-grandchildren because you want to be a crybaby and look for someone else to get up and move when you too can be doing SOMETHING besides flapping your lips together in unison. I will not just stand back and watch the children of our future and the adults in our present day and age fail at something so very simple as loving who they are so they can grow into a compassionate being who gives love out just as well as they are able to receive. If I do nothing else with my time here I will leave a trace of magical dust known as #Self-Love within my bloodline and others… Hope runs deep, roots run deep, love runs deep, life runs deep…. all of this will grow with nourishment

#Self-Love may not be the answer to all of the problems in this country that I live in but it damn sure is a great start to us focusing on the inner troubles of ourselves that we so easily push into this wonderful world onto so many of the wrong people. After all you cannot be a leader if you do not know who you are and what it is you want in life… So exactly how do you stand for a purpose and support a cause?




Mother and Self Created Queen seeking to change the lives of people in the world. I want people to know that #SelfLove is thee most important love in the world. I have experienced many things in life and know first hand how it is and feels to be alone in a world surrounded by many people. I started the social Media Label #FindingMe to promote and encourage self love, growth, and encouragement through life struggles. I am currently writing a book and studying life coaching, counseling, and psychotherapy. I advocate for movements in life, our universe deserves to know that there are more people who appreciate the greatness in life than there are who do not appreciate it.

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